It’s really interesting to see how online dating is shaping the lives of millions of people around the world. Every one of us comes across some kind of funny incidents that become a part of our everlasting memory. I, being a writer, love learning from others experiences and put them down here for others to learn too. I have seen many of friends and acquaintances being related to online dating in some way or other. Here is a little experience of Evangeline, my neighbor, who has a nice experience to share…

When I watched Bridget jone’s diary for the first time, I could instantly relate to her. It was as if the character of Renée Zellweger was me except for the weight issue. Just like her I have always cared for my boy friends’ preference. The way they would like me to dress, the way they would like me to talk, behave it’s always them. It’s like I am nowhere even if it’s about my life. Few months back I broke up with my boy friend who also happens to be my colleague. After a series of break ups in the past, I really wanted to make it happen this time. But guess his constant nagging nature took a toll on our relationship.

I fail to understand why guys can’t behave a bit mature even when then claim that they can handle every situation in life. Isn’t it disgusting for them not to trust their partners or even not to be happy about their partner’s success. In my case, my ex-boy friend had a problem even if I talk to any other colleague or go out on a business luncheon. I have no idea why he had the insecurity that I might have an affair with someone else. I tried to explain him several times, but guess it was of no use. Rather he would try to control my life. I was accountable to him where I am going or with whom I am going out. Often I had been the subject of jokes in front of friends when we would be enjoying our shopping or coffee and he would call several times in between to make sure I am there. Finally I couldn’t take his constant bickering anymore and asked him either to change his nature or leave me. Well obviously he choose the latter option.

The break up wasn’t much painful but I was pissed up with this chauvinistic typical male ego! My close friends tried to divert my mind by arranging blind date for me a couple of times, but I was simply not interested. Then one day my best friends suggested me to try my luck on free online dating sites. She knew my state of mind and that’s why suggested to try this free online dating sites only to kill the monotony that was in my life. After some thought, I also realized it’s not a very bad idea after all. This online dating sites aren’t meant for serious daters only, many of them must be there just to have some time pass . Also as these free online dating sites are FREE, it’s not gonna cost me anything.

I choose one of the prominent free online dating sites and created my profile there. As I was getting bored, I joined the chat section of the free online dating site. I had no idea how time just passed, and before I could realize I was there for a good whole of 4hrs. Sounds crazy, right? But it’s true, I enjoyed it immensely and now-a-days my day would be incomplete without chatting on the free online dating site. Though I am not ready for any serious relationship as of now, but who knows I might meet my soul mate through these free online dating sites someday!

I had a very difficult childhood. Things were normal until my parents got separated when I was quite young. But things turned into worse when my mum got remarried. My stepfather was a complete maniac. Constant arguments between my mum and stepfather soon became a norm. He wouldn’t bother about any family responsibility and was a very violent kinda guy. Often he harmed my mum physically when he would become hyper. I couldn’t understand what my mother saw in that guy that she fall in love and got married to him. Even though I was not my mum’s best friend (I guess I could never forgive her for separating me from my dad!), but I used to feel deep sympathy for her.

It’s been long since I am on my own. But May be witnessing the bitter relationship all through my growing up years have affected me a lot. I don’t know why, but I could never feel like committing to a relationship. I am quite good looking with a pretty good figure and height, so it’s only natural that guys during my university days expressed interest to go out with me. Initially when I was saying No to them, my friends would think it’s only because I don’t like these guys. But when it happened each time, they had a strong doubt that something else is the problem. How can it be possible that no guy is up to my preferred choice criteria? They even tried to set me on blind date with the best friends of their boy friend. But I would refuse each time by citing any lame excuse.

I never confided about my bitter childhood to anyone except my best friend Juliet who was my friend from junior school days. She could very well understand what my real problem was. It’s not that I hate guys or like any particular guy, it’s about my lack of trust on them. i could not just rely on them. So one day on our meeting over coffee, she suggested me about free online dating service. I was surprised at first as how she could advice me something like online dating. But Juliet assured me that she understands me that well, that’s why she is suggesting me this. Free online dating service is not like any regular blind date setting. I would have the liberty to chat with a guy, to know him better and then decide about dating him or not.

On her constant persistence, I agreed to give free online dating service a try. After all as the online dating service was free, I had nothing to lose! I created my profile and soon enough I was flooded with messages. Some of the profiles who sent me messages were too good! I joined a few of them on chat room of the free online dating service. It’s been only a few days, and now I feel Juliet was absolutely right. Earlier I had a put a barrier between me and guys in general, that’s why I couldn’t give them a chance to reach out to me. Now with free online dating service, I feel slowly that barrier is gonna collapse. And who knows soon enough I will find someone really interesting who I would like to date!

It’s really interesting to see how online dating is shaping the lives of millions of people around the world. Every one of us comes across some kind of funny incidents that become a part of our everlasting memory. I, being a writer, love learning from others experiences and put them down here for others to learn too. I have seen many of friends and acquaintances being related to online dating in some way or other. Here is a little experience of   Cara, my neighbor, who has a nice experience to share…

I have seen it men often find it really difficult to understand what women want in real. Do women always want their men to be attentive to them all the time? Is constant praising, wooing is what women want? How to know if your woman is in no mood for sex? I am sure most of men have no idea about these. Often my boy friend teases me about my sympathy for men. He says I should be their love guru. I guess that not a bad idea after all.  Most of my male friends seek my suggestion to understand what their women want. Like the other day, my friend Mike called me even when I was busy getting ready my papers for a business meeting. He said it’s very urgent, hence I couldn’t deny him. Then he told me, his girl friend is upset with him and even not telling him what reason is. I was surprised for I know her girlfriend and she is not that kinda girl who would react without any reason.  I asked Mike to think carefully and after much thinking he told me, “nothing of any serious matter, it’s just that last weekend when I was out with my friends at the bar, she called me a couple of times but I disconnected her call”, but she must have called just like that coz she never raised that issue after that”.

I smiled coz now I could understand the real problem that was there. what women want is constant security, this feeling that their loved ones are with them, if not physically, then virtually. And please if you want to argue that what women want is constant attention and all, you are strongly mistaken. All they want is a sense of security that you are there for them. See I am a woman and may be that’s why I can understand their psychology better.  When a woman is in a relationship, her boyfriend, lover or fiancée is the center of her world. So it’s natural for her to expect that the guy should give her some importance at least. In case of Mike’s girl friend, it was only natural to react coz Mike was not in any business meeting to ignore her calls, he was just chilling out with his friends. Imagine how Mike or any other guy would react if his girlfriend ignores him like that. It’s always easier when you are on a safe side.

Anyways after I explained the point to Mike, he realized his mistake. The following evening, he managed to woo his girl friend once again and took her to a romantic dinner. I am really happy for them. So guys, the point is if your relationship is in trouble, try to analyze your acts, may be somewhere you are at the wrong end. And yes, before reacting, it’s definitely worth thinking from women’s prospective also. Once you realize this, it’s not that tough to understand what women want actually!   I hope my friends are gonna read this and that includes my Boy friend too!

Two years back, when I was using free online chat, I was in the cloud nine. The whole world was beautiful for me. I had many friends online and I used to have a great time chatting with all of them. The person I started liking most was Peter, the man from the neighboring city, who was dealing with racing cars. The very first day, when I saw his profile, I was impressed with his business and wanted to initiate friendship with him through free online chat. It was one of the most exciting moments in my life when he replied my first message. I was so grateful to free online chat Peter was with me whenever I wanted him online.

I was curious to know more about Peter, and free online chat was the only way to communicate. From his way of writing and starting conversation on free online chat it was clear to me that he was a nice guy. He would send messages that showed how much he cared for me. It was the time when I was in need of a partner, and, Peter had everything that I would want in my soulmate. Those six months were the golden period of my life when I was longing to talk to him on free online chat. In between we had exchanged our phone numbers and he would call me every other day in spite of using free online chat. I had started falling in love with him, and finally, the day came when we had a date in a café in our town.

Probably, it was the most unfortunate day of my life when I agreed to his proposal of marrying him. We had only one date and I think I should have known him better before starting a relationship with him because Peter was not the same person he used to be before marriage. He was rude and had no such business as he had told me. earlier, I tried to turn blind eyes to all these things, after all I loved him but things turned bitter with every passing day and within six months I was in a road to splitsvile.

It took me long to get over this brake-up, but, I feel it’s foolish to get tied up with past and brood over a relationship that had nothing to please me. Now, I want to return to the greener pasture again. I have decided to join free online chat, it is the only solution for my problems, I think. I’ve learnt a lot from the roller coaster of my broken marriage and I’m not going to join free online chat the way I had done it. In the past few days I have gone through many articles about the tips and guides of free online chat. I’m sure it will help me making more informed decision this time. Anyways, I can still say that free online chat is a great way of meeting people, and if used responsibly it can do wonders. So, don’t hesitate to join free online chat, rather make it a safe and enjoyable experience.

After accepting a new job in a distant locale, city life has become extremely difficult for me. There were too many hectic days and lonely nights, and to top that, whenever I called my friends up back home, they were either too busy to chat or with their boyfriends. I may have a nice place, and a high paying job now, but I wasn’t enjoying life. All I could do was watch TV or drop into a local pub.

It makes sense to go back now, I mean, I am lonely, and an online group of friends might really help me get back on my feet. I jumped on later that night I started searching for all my old friends who I used to chat with, surprisingly, some of them are still there, I was ecstatic to hear from them. I contacted them all one by one all of them give me warm responses. I quickly realized that this free online chat was a great way to meet new people from my city, people I could hang out with on a daily basis.

It’s been about two weeks since I jumped back on here, and today, I have planned a date with one of the boys living in the same city as me. He seems to be a flirt, but then, it is just a fun thing for me. While talking to him on free online chat he said that he finds me gorgeous and intelligent, he wants to go for a date. It should be a nice experience.

Because I don’t know much about him, I suggested him to meet in a mall where there are a lot of people around. Who knows, worst case scenario, he isn’t the man of my dreams but I have a new friend in my city. Thanks to free online chat

I never thought I would find the love of my life through a free online dating service. I have been an active member in this free online dating community for quite some time and even dated a few gorgeous girls, but they were all causal flings. Maybe I wasn’t looking to be in a serious relationship. My last experience was a bit too much for me to handle. I was in a relationship for 3 years and life was proceeding smoothly. I even denied a very lucrative job offer in another city so I could be with her. She was a part-time model and wanted to make it big in the fashion arena. I used to finance her portfolio shoots and even accompanied her many times to her shoots. I felt a bit out of place in there but I wanted her to be happy and that’s why would support her every decision. I look back now and laugh at it all, what I saw as love, she saw as an opportunity to take advantage of.

Gradually she would accept longer and further away shoots, financed by me, and would be absent for days without telling me a thing. Still I tried to make it work for both of our sakes, but one day I learned she had been seeing another man on the side. A million thoughts raced through my mind about what to do. I had been experiencing a great deal of pain at this time, and decided to void all cheques she had written to hers and other agencies, I threw her out of my home and sold the car I had bought for her.

Since that week, I’ve learned to not put so much trust in women I refrain from emotional attachment now. Casual flings and physical intimacy for some time is ok, but nothing more than that. Then I met Julia through a free online dating service. Before we met physically, I chatted a couple of times with her on the free online dating service chat room. I must say I was attracted by her intellect even from the first time we met on free online dating service chat. She was a dietician, part time writer, and painter. She also did a lot of charity work and was a very serious human rights activist. There was a special charm even in our common conversation.

Before we decided to meet over dinner I had already made up my mind not to be romantically involved with her. But by the time we had met, I found myself already growing fond of her, her intelligence and personality was simply amazing. She was gorgeous no doubt, but more than that she was a lovely human being and her honesty and straightforwardness was something to admire.

It’s been three months since we first met on the free online dating service and we are still going strong. I’m not sure what lies ahead for us, but as of now we are happy and its all thanks to the free online dating service.

Life was hard and uncertain after I lost my wife Susan in a car accident. Fortunately, my son and I survived the crash, but our life was never the same. Though I was leading a lonely life, I was more concerned about my son Thomas. Bringing him up and managing my job schedule simultaneously was a difficult task. Often my mother and neighbours would help us, but times were still tough. Anyhow, I had to look for a permanent solution for this problem and solve my loneliness at the same time. All my friends and family members suggested me to remarry. They tried to fix some dates for me, but nothing worked out. I didn’t like any of those girls, none could compare to Susan. Finally, Arnold, a guy from my neighbourhood, suggested that I visit the online dating sites.

Well, I had never thought of the option earlier. I had heard from my friends that online dating sites were a great place to meet people from different parts of the world. I never had even considered it before, besides, I was too busy with my job and family to think about that. Apparently, many of my friends have been members of the online dating sites and they seem to be having a lot of fun. Some of them also have succeeded in settling down with “the one”. “Could it really work for me?” I asked myself. I had to rid myself of this loneliness, so, finally, I decided to check out a few online dating sites that my friends used.

It didn’t take me long to pick up the concept, I was having fun creating profiles and speaking to other women again, it was refreshing. I was hoping to find someone that was similar to Susan, (personality-wise) it was bit difficult, but I found there are many interesting profiles. I sent messages to some of my selected profiles and was excited when all of them replied. I continued sending messages to them. After some days, I had managed to befriend three beautiful girls, they are still my friends. All of them are well educated, intelligent and successful. Within 2 months of our friendship and online chats I exchanged phone numbers with each of them and expressed my interest to meet them individually.

When, I met Liza, the first girl I met on the online dating sites, I felt that she is the one I was looking for. She has a beautiful figure and gorgeous look, but what I really respected was her intelligence. It was during our first meeting that I fell in love. She was affectionate and responsible she was also excited to meet Thomas.

We’ve been seeing each other regularly for about 9 months now and I’m going to propose to her during our next date. I had no idea that online dating sites could ever help me find another person to love.

My thanks go out to online dating sites!

I found my soul-mate through online dating. It was a close friend that had introduced me to online dating. I was quite successful, you know like any other woman in Canada in her early 30s. I had a successful career, a decent home filled with decent furnishing. But never had much luck with relationships. I’ve dated a few guys, but it just never works out. Friends often compare me to Sarah Jessica Parker from Sex and the City, and the constant failure in relationships has made me pretty desperate. I was so sick of dates ending in failure.

I was on the verge of breakdown, when I bumped into a friend in a cocktail party. We were once very close during university as we shared the same dorm room. But afterwards we lost touch. It was great to see her after such a long time. But I must confess when she introduced me to her boyfriend, I was a bit jealous. He was quite a handsome man! Lucky girl, when I complemented her, she asked me about my date. I responded with “Well, I am single for a while,” but that’s all I could say. When she repeated the question, I smiled and tried to avoid the subject. She called me the very next day and asked me to meet for a cup of coffee. Even though I had second thoughts of about not going to meet my friend, I gave in for old time’s sake. 

Any ideas what the first thing she asked me was? I wouldn’t have shared my problems with anyone else, but she was a good friend, and I trusted her, so I told her of my failure in relationships. After listening patiently, she casually suggested that I try online dating. Even before I could protest, she insisted that online dating is much different than normal dating. She explained how she had been having the same trouble, but that she heard from a trustworthy friend about a reliable online dating site, so she gave it a shot, and that’s how she met her current boyfriend. I decided to try it out later on that night.

I created my profile in a couple of popular online dating sites. I met and dated quite a few interesting guys through these online dating sites before I met my husband Paul. We dated for about 6months and then got married last Christmas. Today I can’t ask anything more in life for I have found my best friend and soul-mate in Paul. Thank you online dating you’ve brought sunshine into my life!