Gone are the days when people used to wait for their parents or relatives or friends to look for a life partner for them. These days, the youngsters and even the adults are using the Internet to find their prospective soul mates. Free online dating is the trend of the day. People are using free online dating sites and their services to make new friends, find their boy-friends or girl-friends and also, to meet their soul mates. With free online dating services available for everyone, I feel the world has turned into a better place to live in.

Before two years, when I heard about free online dating services for the first time, I laughed to myself. My conventional way of thinking was dominating my behavior at that time. I was looking for a suitable girl to marry and was unable to find one. When my younger brother told me about free online dating and suggested me to join a free online dating site, I turned him down. He is active in many free online dating sites and has many friends from all over the world. After few days, I found him with his girl-friend in the same café where I had been for a business appointment and I was jealous of him.

That night I decided to give a shot to free online dating and try my luck out there on the web. I didn’t find it difficult to create my profiles in some of the sites that I found worth joining. I was amazed to see the websites’ designing and their functionality they are user-friendly and have different options that you can select from- messaging, chatting, voice or video chatting, blogging. On the very first day, I started with getting familiar with the different features of the sites. Then, gradually I searched for the profiles that matched my criteria and started to send messages.

Soon, I had many names added to my “friends list” some of them are from the same city where I’m in and some from the other cities. But I found most of them were easy to get along with. My life took a new turn after that I would spend hours together chatting with my online friends, answering their messages and making new friends. It was then that I realized why my younger brother was crazy about free online dating.

I have met a girl through free online dating she’s from our neighboring city. We have several dates outside free online dating sites. She is extremely beautiful, smart and has mastered the art of Kung-fu. She makes me feel comfortable and we have good times whenever we have met on or outside free online dating. I had no idea that one can fall in love using free online dating. But it happened with me and I’m going to embark on another phase of life with the girl I met on free online dating site.

Anyways, free online dating is the best option for anyone, like me, who can’t get their partner in their surroundings.

I have many good and bad experiences related to free date sites as I frequent to some of the free date sites for last three years. When I was new to these sites, my lack of experience had driven me to many funny experiences and these days, I laugh to myself when I remember those incidents. I’m sharing one of those funny incidents.

I have been a very fun loving guy since my college days and I flirt with girls whenever I get a chance. My aim behind joining free date sites was just to have fun and have loads of it. When all of my friends were talking about free date sites and how they were enjoying on those sites, I was excited to do the same- have a blast. So, I selected some of the best free date sites that my friends used and made them my destination during leisure. For the first few days I was confused about selecting my friends. But I got over the issue within some days I could select people whose profiles I liked most.

Soon, I had only hot girls added to my friends group. It was amazing! I would chat with them for hours together. Free date sites had added new charms to my life. Some of the free date sites had features like voice chat and video chat. I had tried almost every option available as I love to experiment and experience. But, the most exciting thing was online chat. The provision of online chatting with other members is available on all free date sites. And, chatting online is something I really enjoy as I’ve mastered the art of conversation. Yes, if you want to succeed on the free date sites you have to learn the conversation skill.

I used the best of my talent- flirting with girls- to which some of the girls responded negatively and some took it easy. Some of them enjoyed it and some were head over heel in love with me. My worst challenge at that time was fixing date with different girls. I had to maintain a notebook to record the dates and timing of meeting the girls. Anyways, I was enjoying my life on free date sites. But you can’t expect life to be enjoyable every moment. Coincidentally, I promised to meet two girls from the free date sites on the same date, time and venue. Ooops……

That was one of the most thrilling moments of my life when I had to deal with two hot but furious ladies. I was sandwiched between the girls who were growling at me and simultaneously fighting with each other. But, blame it on my passion I was still enjoying the gorgeousness of the blue-eyed girl with an hour-glass figure. That date- or you can say multiple dates- was over with my sneaking from that place and joining my friends to escape the situation.

But the incident never discouraged me to log in to the free date sites again and chatting with other girls. My friends still crack jokes at me reminding the situation and suggest me to be careful while on free date sites.

My access to the Internet was limited to emails and searching of specific information. I had heard of online dating but had never tried of it, lack of time or you can say lack of interest. My co-workers would tag me “boring” and I least bothered about them. But the real problem of my life began when I moved in to this new town for a special project. In my hometown I had many friend s who would accompany me after the office hours. But the new place was horrifying, no friends to talk to I would feel so lonely amidst the strangers. Then only I thought of online dating bit seriously because there was no other way out.

Getting into the online dating sites and using their services is not a rocket science and even I didn’t have to burn the midnight oil to know about its procedure. But being skeptical by nature I looked for tips and guidelines of online dating. There were thousands of articles available describing different aspects of online dating and also I went through experiences of other people who have used online dating services. It was not surprising for me that people have given bad remarks about online dating but there were many good remarks as well. For sometime I thought of giving up the idea of online dating, but again I decided to give it a shot before coming to a conclusion.

Anyways, I was out there on the net to spend my leisure, I’ve already spend three days in reading many interesting articles, and the next move is to taste online dating. While using the online dating sites and its services little did I know that my expedition is going to give me the happiest moments of my life. The first experience of online dating was really nice. I selected some of the profiles I liked and sent messages to each of them. They reciprocated in a friendly manner and it was an amazing experience for me. I would spend each evening chatting with my online friends it was a great fun. I could know about the cultures and traditions of some other countries through the friends as well.

One day, when I logged in to one of the online dating sites that I was using I found a message from a girl. Before adding her to my friends list I visited her profile and it was exciting. She is hot! Well, I took no time to accept her message and within few days we became good friends. Gradually, we grew closer to each other and shared everything personal through online dating. I miss her when she is not there online and it is a different experience altogether. Perhaps I’m in love! We have exchanged our phone numbers and I’ve called her a couple of times. Tonight, I’m going to ask her to fix a date so that we can meet personally. I’m excited for the moment when she will come online and we’ll talk about our first date.

Online dating has given a new dimension to my life.

Do you believe in fairytale stories? I am sure as a girl all of us believe in those stories more or less. Stories like that of Cinderella still excite us even today. But it was my best friend Joan, who made me believe that fairy tale like happy ending also happens in real life. Wanna know what is Joan’s story? Well here it is. Joan comes from a very poor family. Her father died when she was quite young and her mother had a hard time in bringing up Joan and her siblings. We became friends while we were in junior school. Due to poor financial condition, Joan couldn’t pursue higher studies and had to do odd jobs quite early in life to support her family.

There was a certain determination, a belief to get going attitude in Joan that I admire a lot. Joan was very pretty too and was blessed with a perfect figure. At 20, she was doing 2 part time jobs as waitress at a local restaurant and bar, pursuing her passion in singing, and even bearing her 2 kid brother’s educational expenditure. Naturally she hardly was left any time to enjoy on dating and all like other girls of her age. One day I suggested her to try online dating. I had tried it by then and I was quite enjoying this unique concept of dating. As there are many free dating sites available, she won’t have to worry about expenditure and all. Joan looked interested after knowing about free dating sites.

She registered in one of the prominent free dating sites. Soon enough she started getting response and even called me one day to say thanks for suggesting the free dating sites idea. Then she told me that there is someone really special who she met on the free dating site and now like him a lot. I was happy to hear that. Again she called me some days later and this time asked me if she could borrow an expensive dress of mine? I said yes but asked her why she would need my dress? Then she told me that, the guy Nick, about whom she told me last time that she met him on that free dating site, would like to take her on a luxury cruise dinner on their first physical date. I was happy but then suddenly realized, that the guy seemed to a Richie, so had Joan told him everything about her own condition? On my asking, Joan sounded guilty and replied that she had lied to him that she is a very rich woman.

Even though I was shocked, I hold on to myself and suggested Joan tells the truth to the guy if she actually loves him. If it’s just a casual fling, then it doesn’t matter. Guess what, Joan called me last evening and told me that even after she told everything about her, Nick still loves her and had even proposed her! They are gonna get married soon. Now isn’t it a Cinderella style happy ending oops I mean a new beginning to their happily married life!

It’s really interesting to see how online dating is shaping the lives of millions of people around the world. Every one of us comes across some kind of funny incidents that become a part of our everlasting memory. I, being a writer, love learning from others experiences and put them down here for others to learn too. I have seen many of friends and acquaintances being related to online dating in some way or other. Here is a little experience of Adrienne, my neighbor, who has a nice experience to share…

It might be surprising, but I came to know about the online dating sites from my teenage son, Joy. No, Joy is not old enough to try online dating, he is only 12. He got the idea from his best friend whose elder sister is a regular to these online dating sites. You must be wondering why a boy would suggest his mum to try these online dating sites. Well its coz I am a single mother. After a bitter relationship, I was left alone with Joy. Joy brought me the whole world of happiness. I was too busy looking after him to think about anything else. I was happy coz taking his care took most of my time and I could also forget my loneliness in that pretext. But as Joy started growing up, he got busy with his school, friends, dance classes, Karate class and what not. So of late I was starting to realize the void that was always there in my life. Void for someone close to me, void for love, for companionship. After all, at 33 I guess I am not too old to feel in that way.

But I had no clue Joy with his tiny mind would notice all this. When last weekend over dinner, he popped up the question like “Mum, why you never got married? “, I was surprised. I smiled and replied, “May be I didn’t find a nice guy to get married.” Upon which Joy simply said, “I guess it’s not that tough if you fall in love first and then get married. “ It’s kinda awkward for me, so I tried to change the topic, but he kept on persisting. Then he told me the idea of online dating sites which he got from his best friend who always complains how his elder sister constantly glued to the computer and won’t let him play video games even. My first reaction is oh my god, how much today’s kids know. While leaving for his skating class, Joy reminded me once again to try the online dating sites, I knew my son has finally grown up!

You can say Joy kinda pushed me to try these online dating sites. So that night I searched for a couple of online dating sites. At first I thought I would just have a look around and would tell Joy the next day that I didn’t find interesting there. But when I browsed a couple of prominent online dating sites, I couldn’t help getting fantasized about dating some hot profiles in these online dating sites. After spending some time on these online dating sites, I decided to give it a try. Also as many of these online dating sites are free, I won’t have to give a single penny for this online dating thing.

I created my profile on a top free online dating site and joined the chat room. Must say the atmosphere in the online dating site chat room reminded me of my dating days in college. It’s been a month and now my days wouldn’t be complete without chatting on the online dating site. Today life seems promising and it’s all because of these online dating sites. Like Joy said, who knows someday I might find someone really interesting to fall in love with!

It’s really interesting to see how online dating is shaping the lives of millions of people around the world. Every one of us comes across some kind of funny incidents that become a part of our everlasting memory. I, being a writer, love learning from others experiences and put them down here for others to learn too. I have seen many of friends and acquaintances being related to online dating in some way or other. Here is a little experience of Evangeline, my neighbor, who has a nice experience to share…

When I watched Bridget jone’s diary for the first time, I could instantly relate to her. It was as if the character of Renée Zellweger was me except for the weight issue. Just like her I have always cared for my boy friends’ preference. The way they would like me to dress, the way they would like me to talk, behave it’s always them. It’s like I am nowhere even if it’s about my life. Few months back I broke up with my boy friend who also happens to be my colleague. After a series of break ups in the past, I really wanted to make it happen this time. But guess his constant nagging nature took a toll on our relationship.

I fail to understand why guys can’t behave a bit mature even when then claim that they can handle every situation in life. Isn’t it disgusting for them not to trust their partners or even not to be happy about their partner’s success. In my case, my ex-boy friend had a problem even if I talk to any other colleague or go out on a business luncheon. I have no idea why he had the insecurity that I might have an affair with someone else. I tried to explain him several times, but guess it was of no use. Rather he would try to control my life. I was accountable to him where I am going or with whom I am going out. Often I had been the subject of jokes in front of friends when we would be enjoying our shopping or coffee and he would call several times in between to make sure I am there. Finally I couldn’t take his constant bickering anymore and asked him either to change his nature or leave me. Well obviously he choose the latter option.

The break up wasn’t much painful but I was pissed up with this chauvinistic typical male ego! My close friends tried to divert my mind by arranging blind date for me a couple of times, but I was simply not interested. Then one day my best friends suggested me to try my luck on free online dating sites. She knew my state of mind and that’s why suggested to try this free online dating sites only to kill the monotony that was in my life. After some thought, I also realized it’s not a very bad idea after all. This online dating sites aren’t meant for serious daters only, many of them must be there just to have some time pass . Also as these free online dating sites are FREE, it’s not gonna cost me anything.

I choose one of the prominent free online dating sites and created my profile there. As I was getting bored, I joined the chat section of the free online dating site. I had no idea how time just passed, and before I could realize I was there for a good whole of 4hrs. Sounds crazy, right? But it’s true, I enjoyed it immensely and now-a-days my day would be incomplete without chatting on the free online dating site. Though I am not ready for any serious relationship as of now, but who knows I might meet my soul mate through these free online dating sites someday!