It’s been more than a decade since I finished my Junior high school but the memory of my high school prom night is still vivid in me. That night was special for me for I got a chance to dance with a boy whom I had a secrete crush throughout my junior school days. His name was Jack. Even though Jack was not the ideal HOT boy in our school, I mean he didn’t have a macho body n all, but due to his helping nature he was a favorite among all. Jack and I were good friends. Don’t know why but I could never muster up the courage to tell him about my feelings except only the prom night when while dancing I whispered “I love you” in his ears. Though he couldn’t know what I said, he was surprised and asked me if I said something and I lied pointblank.

We lost touch after school coz Jack’s family moved to London. It might sound a bit weird but I couldn’t forget him even after all these years. I had been on a string of relationships in my university years. But it was for short term or rather I wanted it to be of short term. May be I wasn’t ready for a long term commitment then. These days I’m active in free dating site. Free dating site seems to be the latest “in” thing and many of my friends vouch for it. So I also thought of trying my luck in free dating site. I have met some of the most interesting dates through this free dating site.

Few days back while chatting on the free dating site, I came across a profile whose name was Jack. May be the name has something to do with my first crush, I initiated chatting with him. He seemed a nice and gentle guy. We talked about our jobs and career mainly on the first time we chatted. Jack worked as a doctor and was passionate about doing research on genetics. Even though he went on and on about his proposed plan of opening an hospital for patients suffering form rare disease from the very first day we chatted on free dating site, I enjoyed chatting with him.

We didn’t even purposefully plan to meet on chatting next time, but whenever I would be logged on, Jack would be there on free dating site. One day I even joked him that how come he is always available on chatting to which he replied he is always online to catch me. You might say chivalry but I was impressed! It might be more than a month of meeting on free dating site, when one day Jack told me about his school days. When he said he couldn’t forget a girl who was his friend back then but he had a secret crush on her, there was a buzz inside me. Is it a coincidence or there is something more to it? He was equally surprised when I told him that I had a similar experience. You are not wrong if you guess just like in movies Jack turned out to be the same guy with whom I had a secrete crush. Can’t tell you how I was feeling finally I found my first love after so many years on free dating site. I couldn’t have been happier for this weekend Jack is flying here to meet me. Both of us are grateful to this free dating site for it made us together.

Free online dating service is a savior for many singles like me. Being single is not an issue, there are many singles. But problem starts when you have certain lacuna which is responsible for your singleton status. My shortcoming is my shyness. Because of my shyness, I have been subjected to consistent humiliation throughout my growing up years. I was afraid of talking to any new guy in school, afraid of giving presentation before class, afraid of participating in school debates. Slowly I developed this feeling that there is something wrong with me. I am not like other normal guys in my class. No wonder I had a very limited number of friends both in my school and University days.

I can’t tell you how miserable I feel each time I accompany my friends to bar for a drink. Those who have girlfriends would bring them, and those who haven’t would try their luck in wooing any hot girl at the bar. Usually I would restrict myself to the corner most seat and will be seen with the company of my drink. My friends would try all the tricks to cajole the girls they met at the bar. Starting from offering a free drink to dedicating popular romantic sound tracks for them, they adopt all techniques. It’s a treat to watch the things especially when any girl rejects their advancement. But at the same time, it creates a void, a wretched feeling inside me. My friends even tried to send me on blind dates, but I would shudder from the very idea of going out with a girl alone. I had even consoled my mind that thanks to my shyness, I am never gonna fall in love with anyone. Then one day my best friend introduced me about Free online dating service.

He suggested me to give the free online dating service at least one try. As the service is free, its not gonna cost me anything. Initially I laughed at his suggestion saying that it’s not for me. But my friend’s constant pursuance forced me to give the free online dating service a serious thought. Finally I decided to try my luck on the free online dating service. I thought what’s the heck, if I’m not gonna gain something, I won’t lose anything either. Though my friend vouched for the free online dating service, I decided to do a bit of research to see if all the hype is worth it or not. I checked into some prominent free online dating service sites. The graphics, attractive color combo, interesting profiles, everything in those sites offering free online dating service were so captivating that it’s hard to ignore them. Now I was convinced that all my previous assumptions were preposterous.

I didn’t waste any more time and created my profile on a prominent free online dating site. I was even surprised of myself as how easily I could open up before the Free online dating service community when I started chatting with them. It’s been two months since I joined this free online dating service bandwagon and today you can see a complete makeover of my personality. I no longer hesitate while talking to any girls. Can’t tell you what a relief it is to see that I’m normal like any other guy of my age and all credit goes to free online dating service!

Before I knew about the free online chat thing, life was like hell for me. You won’t believe I was so beleaguered with my so called friends’ comments that at one point I was even contemplating the idea of suicide! My problem, well I have stammering problem. Its been there since childhood, initially my parents assumed it to be just simple childhood problem which will go away with growing up years, but guess that wasn’t meant to be. As a result I was the subject of jokes and humiliation in my school, in my neighborhood. Wherever I go, my deficiency will go with me. So it’s natural I didn’t have a normal childhood unlike my other friends.

As my friend circle was minimal, I was into myself most often. I don’t know whom I should give credit to, the constant jabbering of my so called friends or I had this special inclination towards art, but gradually I was involved into painting as well as writing. During my University days, my writings would regularly get published in the college journal. But I would send all my writings in a pseudo name. Guess by that time my mindset was convinced that I have got a chronic problem of stammering and if others know I am the one who is writing all these, they might even reject my writing. Sounds stupid but that’s what I was then! Even today after so many years whenever any of my article is published, it’s on my false name. I am working as a free lance technical content writer today. Life is smooth as far as my work is concerned. I regularly interacted with my clients through online and participate in lots of forum discussions. But there was some deep unknown void inside me which was troubling me from a long time. One weekend, while browsing net for some content which I had to write for a client’s website, I came across an advertisement where free online chat was promoted for a prominent website. I was about to close the advt, when an idea came to my mind. Why not try for this free online chat? As they are free, its not gonna cost me a single thing. And who knows I might impress someone with my words as I am at my best while playing with words.

So I logged onto a dating site and created my profile there and joined the free online chat bandwagon. Must say from the first day itself I felt as if I have reached a different place, where it doesn’t matter what deficiency I have. With so many guys chatting on free online chat, I was convinced of its success rate. Soon free online chat becomes a ritual for me my days wouldn’t be completed without chatting on this free online site. Now some good news, few days back I met a nice guy who was like me regular to this free online chat. He liked me for my expressiveness and I liked him for his cheerfulness. We are good friends now but you never know there might be something more in store! As of now I have found a new meaning to live life just like any other girl of my age and its all because of free online chat. So thanks a million!

I had a strong notion that dating is a passé and is restricted only for teenagers until I knew about adult dating online. No, its not that I am against dating or online dating, I used to date a lot during my university days. Back then I was a HOT property among all girls. Today after a decade of crossing that age, it seems like I am now in a different time zone. Life as an investment banker is pretty busy, I get to travel a lot and meet many interesting people so often. However, while attending parties or get-together often I feel like being left out as all my friends and colleagues would be with their girlfriends. I am otherwise happy being a single, it’s solely my decision not to get married and settled. But of late I felt like missing some fun in life.

This summer while on a trekking trip, my friend Harry introduced me to her girlfriend, Rachel. She was gorgeous and quite friendly too. Must admit I was a bit jealous of Harry’s luck. I was dumbfounded when Harry told me that he met Rachel on adult dating online. I mean I knew online dating is there, but what’s this adult dating online stuff? Then Harry explained me that adult dating online is specifically meant for adults only and there is much more than mere dating here. That increased my curiosity and I couldn’t wait till I reach home to browse net for the adult dating online. Once back home, I jumped before my laptop and started searching for adult dating online. I was surprised to no end when I saw thousands of sites dedicated for adult dating online. I browsed some of the prominent adult dating online sites to know what they offer. Apart from basic dating service, many adult dating online sites arrange fever parties, beach parties for groups where you can have a nice time with your partner! Man that sounds tantalizing! I was cursing myself where the hell I was all the while. I wasted no time to register with a prominent adult dating online site.

Only a single look at the profiles of those HOT and gorgeous girls who look more like Playboy models made me sweat! I sent message to a few gorgeous babes. Don’t know if my timing was right or it’s my luck, but I received a reply from two of them. I invited them to join me on chat on the adult dating online site. Both of them were nice and very open-minded which I admire a lot in women. But I liked one of them, Kathy more. Just like me Kathy wasn’t looking for any serious relationship and that’s what made me attracted towards her. From the very first day we met and chatted on adult dating online, it was as if some unspoken communication was there between us for she could know what I was about to say.

After chatting a couple of times on adult dating online, we decided to meet at a fever party which the adult dating online site was arranging. Last weekend we I met Kathy at the fever party and we had a nice time together. Now we are planning to meet more often in fever parties and till that happens there is always adult dating online chat room to interact. Thanks adult dating online for making my life exciting.

My life took a turn the day I came across free online dating sites. I just wish they were there in my growing up years, then I wouldn’t have suffered the way I did. Since childhood I have always been on my own. As I was a bit fat than any average child of my age, I was subjected to constant pranks and humiliations of my friends and senior in my junior-high days. I guess then I was too young to understand all the pranks which at times had given me physical injuries. Then slowly and gradually I could feel the heat and tried to stay away from my so called friends in school and neighborhood. University days were also no different. Well if not all, my loneliness did at least one good thing for me. I was always bright, in fact very bright in my academics. I have been a University topper in biomedical research and now working as a junior scientist in a leading genome project.

So far so good! But apart from the professional satisfaction, there was a constant void in my life. I never even dared to approach any girl for dating coz somewhere in my mindset the constant pranks of my childhood days had confirmed that something was lacking in me. Yes I am fat but then there are so many others in this world who are leading a happy and contend life. Then what makes me feel so inferior of myself? I began to seriously think about getting psychiatric help. It was by sheer coincidence that during this time, I came to know about the free online dating sites from a colleague. He was a widower having a teenage son, but was planning to get married to his current girlfriend whom he met on one of the free online dating sites.

Don’t know what inspired me more, my colleague’s success of finding a perfect girl or my long time loneliness, but I made up my mind to try my luck in these free online dating sites. I created my profile in one of the popular free online dating sites, but deliberately didn’t put my snap and you know the reason better! Within just 2days, I was flooded with response from girls who wanted to chat with me. I had never been this happy the day I chatted with not one but 3girls at a time at one of this free online dating sites. I noticed they are so impressed by research thing and then I realize I too have some good qualities to impress anyone!

Soon these free online dating sites became my companion. I guess the number of friends (mostly girls!) I made through these free online dating sites is more than the guys I have been acquainted in my whole damn life! I was surprised even after I posted my snap in these free online dating sites sometime back my new pretty friends are quite ok with that. Some of them even called me cute. Can u believe it I have been given a compliment! All thanks to the free online dating sites, now I believe I’m just like any other normal guy. I am in love with life these days!

Until two years back, I had never taken life seriously, I had everything I wanted in life. At 23, I was a successful investment banker, financially as well as career-wise I was very successful, I had a great friend circle, was a member of several charitable societies and had recently been dating some very gorgeous women. You can say life was perfect for me! Two of my favorite hobbies included Hiking and Para-Gliding, but when life suddenly took a turn for the worst, everything changed overnight for me.

One night, heading home after drinking at a friends party, I had a major car accident. It was so severe that I spent twp days unconscious. When I woke up on the third day my world was upside down. Doctors informed me that to save my life, my right leg had to be amputated.

                        At first, I couldn’t understand what was happening around me. It took quite a long time before I accepted the fact that my life would be different from here on out. I was angry at everything and everyone around me. I didn’t know how else to react, my life was so perfect and now, I felt as if fate had kicked me from my throne.

Even though my colleagues and friends were very supportive, I felt like shutting myself away from everyone. I even took a sabbatical break which was difficult as I had always been somewhat of a workaholic.   

                        I would wallow for hours reading and surfing the net and finally, one day, while browsing I stumbled upon a free online dating service exclusively for the physically disabled! I was aware of free online dating services in the past, and had even given it a shot a few times in the past. I think it’s a great medium for anyone looking to meet interesting people. But a free online dating service for the handicapped is something I had never heard of. I was surprised to see such astounding member numbers on the free online dating service. I spent some time visiting a few profiles which looked interesting and sent off a few messages to anyone I felt might be a good match, I wasn’t sure if I was interested in a relationship or friendship, but I was hoping to find something.

                        I created a profile hoping to meet some new people, and ask for advice regarding coping with my disability. I chatted with a couple of other online members on the first day, and it helped me to feel better. For the next few days I was a regular to the free online dating service and I noticed one girl named Jessica was often on the same time as I was. Through chat, we gradually became friends.  We could relate to each other. Jessica, just like myself,  had lost her legs in an accident. But I was amazed to find her so cheerful through her talks as if nothing had happened.

                        It’s been  two months since I met her on the free online dating service and thanks to her only today, I feel better about life. I can’t say for certain that I know what she thinks of me, but I know my life would be better with her in it.

In the end, I guess losing my leg was bittersweet, my life is forever different, but ive met a great girl through an free online dating service.

Life is not easy-going, I know it, but I’m a kind of happy-go-lucky man and prefer to accept whatever comes my way. However, I’m never scared of facing challenges. Be it my educational or professional career or any other personal matter like selecting friends and soulmate, life has taught me a lot and my experiences have been added to my expertise. Well, like the tennis court and my office, I’m very frequent to the dating Websites. I love tennis as it is my favourite game for physical fitness, and dating online, I feel, is the perfect way to relax after a hectic day in the office. However, my contribution to the dating websites has brought me luck in the form of Chelsia, my girlfriend.

I have been participating in most of the top dating websites since past four years. You may call me a dating-addict, but the addiction has taught me some good lessons. I met different kinds of people- good, bad and grey- who helped me know the world better. All thanks to dating websites. In my four years of dating experience, I met a good number of girls, both online and offline, before meeting Chelsia. The dating Websites give a good deal of provision to meet people from all over the world in different levels of chatting like online chatting, voice chat and video chat. Earlier, I used to hesitate a bit, but then it was online conversation and I could participate in any type of conversation with women.

After some days of online conversation with the girls on the dating websites, I used to meet them physically if they are from my city. But, Chelsia belongs to a distance town, some 8hours fly from my place. My busy schedules of job would never allow me to visit to that place and in fact, I didn’t want to spend a fortune to meet a girl who I know through dating Websites. Fortunately, there was a twist in my life and I was assigned a new project by our company for the unit that has newly opened in the same town where Chelsia lives. Though, Chelsia and I were barely talking for last few months, I didn’t have to burn the midnight lamps to find her out as there were dating websites.

As soon as I get into my room after I joining the new office, I hopped into the bed carrying my laptop and typed the names of those dating sites I was familiar with. And, finally I found her out on one of those dating sites. I started some simple conversation, and she could recall me even after a long gap. After talking to her for some days when I asked her to meet on Sunday in a café she readily agreed. The eventful Sunday was a really memorable day of my life. She was amazing! And I was in love………. It is as simple as this. We started dating each other and we are getting stronger with our relationship.

It is possible just because of the dating websites I have started living a new life with Chelsia.